
Don’t come empty handed
Whenever you are welcomed to someone’s home it is good to bring a hostess gift. From a candle to a plate of cookies, a small gesture can go a long way. Make sure to ask your significant other if any of his family members have allergies you should be aware of. If you are not meeting at his home, it is still kind to bring a small gift for the parents, like a bouquet of flowers.Dress like the more modest version of yourself
While it is important to be yourself when meeting his family, it doesn’t hurt to err on the side of caution with elements like the length of your skirt of the amount of cleavage you reveal. You never want an inappropriate outfit to distract from what you are saying or your personality. For some ideas of what to wear you can look at this article from WhoWhatWear.Ask, ask, ask
A general rule of good conversation is that people love to talk about themselves. While your significant other’s parents will be interested in getting to know you, it is just as important that you express enthusiasm for getting to know them. Ask questions, listen attentively to their answers, and ask follow-up questions. By learning about his family a bit beforehand you can have some topics in mind that they might be interested in discussing. For example, his mother may be an avid gardener and you are interested in hearing her opinion on succulents you won’t kill ;)Say thank you
For everything. From when you arrive until after you leave, thank you should be at the forefront of your mind. Sending a handwritten thank you note (for the meal, or the show, or whatever you happen to do) will be greatly appreciated and is a best practice.Remember the golden rule of etiquette
The whole point of etiquette is to put those around you at ease. By being helpful, asking questions, and maintaining a positive disposition you will be sure to make a good impression. And remember, they are most likely just as nervous to meet you as you are to meet them!What are your best tips for meeting the parents? Any funny stories?
-AJF
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